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Urgh, I am so lazy.
Well... No. Maybe I am not.... But I always FEEL like I am. There is just so much stuff you should do all the time as a grown up. What should I do now? Among cleaning the apartment, sending out work applications, right now I’ve been thinking of making an application for a school in graphic design. But you need to do a whole bunch of work samples to even apply. I’ve applied to this school before and that went decent even if I did not get in. So hopefully I know what to do to get it right this time.
What more should I do? I don’t know. Get a date? I guess I should. I mean I don’t really have to, but I feel like I really should. It would stop me from thinking about it every single day. This might surprise you deeply, but I am bad at relationships. I’m a social person, and I feel I live an active life. (Of course, that’s what anyone would say right after admitting that.) But that part I am so bad at. I even feel like I am worst at it now than I was a year ago because of a few bad experiences. I feel like I lost motivation. Especially to find someone among people I know. Approaching people as friends is easy and fun, taking the whole thing next step is a deep dark unknown. I’ve been using Tinder to get around that. But been using it for so long and yet it just hasn’t done much for me. I rarely get a chance to chat with people after a match other than “Hi”. Anyone of you use that? I would gladly hear how it has been working for you.
- Tell us a thing you should do.
- Are you going to apply to a school or a work position soon?
- Are you using Tinder or any other dating app/site?
- Just talk about whatever you feel like around love/relationships.
- Or talk about anything!